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Residents Remember School Shooting Victims in Tearful Vigil

Families gather on Village Green to light candles and release sky lanterns in memory of Newtown, CT victims.

Oak Lawn residents gathered with their children at the Village Green on Friday in a show of hope against some dark times in our country by lighting candles and releasing sky lanterns in memory of the Newtown, CT shooting victims.

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Mayor Dave Heilmann orchestrated the candlelight vigil to honor the 20 schoolchildren and six teachers who died in a mass shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School on Dec. 14.

“Most of us have dropped our children off at schools and you see them walk or run in. Seven hours later you expect them to walk out with a smile on their face,” the mayor said. “We don’t expect to get a call with the words that no parent should ever have to hear.”

Heilmann said he couldn’t imagine telling his four children that their brother or sister wouldn’t be coming home from school, or walking into a room and seeing their toys and clothes knowing a child was never coming back.

“I don’t know what those families are saying to each other tonight or the words they use between the tears,” Heilmann said. “Maybe that way comes from other communities across the United States like Oak Lawn … maybe together we can bring a little light into their lives.”

After the mayor’s opening remarks, the Christmas lights on the Village Green went dark for several moments.

As Oak Lawn children read the names of the deceased Newtown first-graders, tearful parents hugged their own children a little tighter.

All about the Village Green community members of all ages held candles, even a baby in a stroller.

Sarah McLachlan’s melancholy “Arms of the Angel” flowed over the Village Green where Oak Lawn firefighters lit sky lanterns for each lost soul and released them into the night sky.

For a moment, the lanterns congregated together in the sky, then disappeared.

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kristen jo December 28, 2012 at 05:13 pm
Well said, Kristin. It was a beautiful and touching tribute put on by Village of Oak Lawn and their citizens. Kids know all too well how dangerous this world is, but they also need to know to respect and honor lives lost. There was not a dry eye last night. I do not recall the last time I saw so many grown men cry. Women and children, yes. Men seem to be able to keep composure. Not last night, I saw tears in the eyes of our firemen. There are not even enough positive words to describe last night's vigil. Thank you Oak Lawn for putting it together and Oak Lawn Patch for covering it.
David Jasudowicz December 28, 2012 at 05:14 pm
A very moving and powerful event! A special thanks to firefighter O'neil who stayed atop that ladder the whole time to make sure old glory flew freely. It meant something to me..............Thanks!
Jennifer Anne December 28, 2012 at 06:31 pm
grow up and have some compassion for other people in the world!
scouter December 28, 2012 at 06:51 pm
Wonderful and heartbreaking at the same time.
kristen jo December 28, 2012 at 07:55 pm
I am so glad you acknowledged him by name, thank you. I too noticed him when I arrived. I had no clue who he was, but he stayed perched at least 75 feet above ground, if not higher, for the duration of the vigil.
rick December 28, 2012 at 08:15 pm
Glad you were not part of us last night
rick December 28, 2012 at 08:18 pm
It meant something to everyone on the ground...thanks Mr. O'neil!
Bill Cooper December 28, 2012 at 08:22 pm
It was a very emotional event. I think of my 2 grand daughters (7-10) and what life would be with out them. I still can't get a grip on how a piece of garbage can murder 20 babies in cold blood, and yes men can cry too.
Bill Cooper December 28, 2012 at 08:24 pm
Thank you Mayor for a great & solemn event.
rick December 28, 2012 at 08:27 pm
Thank you Mayor for a wonderful, moving tribute!
Who was the author of "the 11 days before Christmas" and could a copy be posted on OL Patch...thanks again
Mike Donatowicz December 29, 2012 at 12:17 am
It's meant as guilt transfer to make someone feel better for it not being them. I don't see the purpose it serves other than making one feel better about themselves. If it was local I could see it. But does Newtown even know? I find it self serving and grandstanding. Better to have prayed, reflected on our good fortune, and maybe contribute to a mental health aware
Ness program
kristen jo December 29, 2012 at 01:07 am
Rick, the poem is posted on Oak Lawn Patch Facebook page.
https://www.facebook.com/oaklawnpatch?fref=ts Hope link works.
rick December 29, 2012 at 01:26 am
hey Breeze916, like I told you before, glad you were not part of us last night...
Denise December 29, 2012 at 03:11 am
What a silly waste of time. We don't know any of those people, they don't know us, it's over, nothing will bring them back. Pass a concealed carry law and that will deter something similar in the future
Jill December 29, 2012 at 03:53 am
Denise, I hope if you ever have to go through such a loss in your lifetime, no one takes the time to show support for you. How could you be so selfish and inhumane as to have that type of reaction?! Shame on you!!
Nancy M. Czerwiec December 29, 2012 at 04:35 am
another thought-- if every man -woman -child gave a $1.00 donation to Newtown we could sent $52000($2000 per family) to Newtown's 26 families to use -no strings attached from Oak Lawn to Newtown-
A donation site could be at the Village Hall and kept there til next November
Lori December 29, 2012 at 05:33 am
Before this Patch article all I had read was that the lights at the Village Green were being turned off at 7:00 in honor of the victims. I wish I had known that it was so much more. I would have liked to participate.
Lorraine Swanson (Editor) December 29, 2012 at 05:40 am
I'm sorry you missed the two articles preceding this story, Lori. Have you signed up for our newsletter? We do try our best to keep on top stuff that the community is interested in. Patch doesn't sell email addresses.
http://oaklawn.patch.com/newsletters
Denise December 29, 2012 at 07:45 am
Surely you are joking Nancy! With all the local needs you want to send $52000 1300 miles away? Newtown is a very wealthy community -'the most perfect town in the country ' by their own words. They have also stated that they want to be left alone.get on with your own life.keep your money locally.
Nancy M. Czerwiec December 29, 2012 at 04:08 pm
Nancy to Denise!
It was a merely a "thought" for the 1st Anniversary- an idea- a remembrance as the holidays come around in 2013 and days get heavy with recall. No harm done in thinking about the 26 lives snuffed out by violence and how to say "We remember" as far away as Oak Lawn Il.
Mike Donatowicz December 29, 2012 at 05:43 pm
Thank you Denise. That's what I'm saying as well. Honor them through actions and change, not sympathetic grandstanding meant to show compassion. Of course there's compassion! But why drag the kids to it? It's really just to make yourself feel better. And that makes it a shallow and trendy gesture.
Mike Donatowicz December 29, 2012 at 05:46 pm
What good does "We Remember" to a community on the coast do? How can we not remember...it's all over the place. It is a horror that needs to be laid to rest and have it initiate change...not sending money and lighting candles to get sweet pics of our kids and boast that we were there.
Nancy M. Czerwiec December 29, 2012 at 05:59 pm
From Nancy
Seems you two are on the same track-- as shown below-- Happy New Year to you both! Breeze916 7:17 pm on Friday, December 28, 2012 It's meant as guilt transfer to make someone feel better for it not being them. I don't see the purpose it serves other than making one feel better about themselves. If it was local I could see it. But does Newtown even know? I find it self serving and grandstanding. Better to have prayed, reflected on our good fortune, and maybe contribute to a mental health aware Ness program Denise 10:11 pm on Friday, December 28, 2012 What a silly waste of time. We don't know any of those people, they don't know us, it's over, nothing will bring them back. Pass a concealed carry law and that will deter something similar in the future
Mike Donatowicz December 30, 2012 at 03:46 am
Notice how this is over now...and people have moved on? My point. Where is SUSTAINED awarenes? Nowhere. The photo op is over. Sad.
Lorraine Swanson (Editor) December 30, 2012 at 06:12 am
I can certainly understand where you're coming from Breeze916. I reached my breaking point with these random, bizarre mass shootings a long time ago. I'd hate to think this is the price we must pay to live in a free society. As some are saying about the shooting in Newtown, CT "this one feels different." I don't know how much worse it can get than 20 dead first-graders, not that all the other ones haven't been just as awful. I don't think the American public is going to be so quick to forget Sandy Hook. As Newtown turns inward to recover from this tragedy, I'm sure every resident there feels the world's outpouring of support for the community. As the Mahareshi told the Beatles when their manager Brian Epstein died, "think good thoughts and they will reach him." Surely the good thoughts of the citizens of Oak Lawn reached somebody there on Friday night. I thought Oak Lawn's vigil was moving, tasteful and eloquent. Kudos to Mayor Heilmann for arranging it.
Quiet Neighbor December 30, 2012 at 07:56 pm
Lorraine, thanks for a good recap and for providing video.
I think that paying respect to the lost with time and thought and via personal letters makes more sense than collecting cash. There aren't homes to rebuild or food to provide and the standard hurricane response isn't applicable. Nothing we do can bring the children back or erase the tragedy from history. Responding by way of coming together as a community like this is about the best and most reasonable response. The more we can make people and not things a priority the better off we all will be. The more that the community can come together and share experiences whether they be celebrations or sadness it is good for all. Instead of debating the event, lets use it as an example, a stepping off point to remember to be good to one another. There are many other people aside from Sandy Hook that grieve everyday as there are new acts of violence that take lives, locally and globally and could use our support tomorrow and the next day. This was a very human thing to do and it is always a remarkable experience when strangers come together setting aside every difference for the matter at hand. It brings a shred of hope in humanity , an example of caring and love, and helps heal those affected by the tragedy. It was for all of us locally who needed it as much as it was for Newtown because this hit home for many people. It isn't an empty gesture but rather a real facing of fear, sadness, and a show of support. Thanks O.L.
Nancy M. Czerwiec December 30, 2012 at 08:14 pm
Read the Chicago Tribune on Sunday Dec 30th- and see how they are inundated with "stuff"-No more responses to those wanting to run an idea into the ground--Lastly hope everyone said at least a prayer or two.
Mike Donatowicz December 30, 2012 at 08:27 pm
I'm withyou on the Beatle's comment. Well done. However, that's the point. "THINK good THOUGHTS". Not "line up 5 year olds on a cold night and hand them candles so our neighbors know we're caring people. I have been sending good thoughts to those poor families since the moment it happened. I don't need a bumper sticker to show I feel for them...or the troops...or some fireman/cop lost in the line of duty. Isn't that a given? Why do we have to light candles and lay down little stuffed animals? Just my opinion, of course.
Mike Donatowicz December 30, 2012 at 08:30 pm
Well said Quiet. Well said. And when it's done for those reasons...and those reasons alone...it is a good thing.
Lorraine Swanson (Editor) December 30, 2012 at 10:42 pm
I think it's safe to say that this was not an empty gesture on the part of Oak Lawn residents.
Note Article
Just a short thought to get the word out quickly about anything in your neighborhood.
Share something with your neighbors. Write a new post... What's up? Make an announcement, speak your mind, or sell something
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Concerned neighbor June 17, 2013 at 10:24 am
What is the status of the piano?
Joe Conroy June 17, 2013 at 01:31 pm
It's yours call me
Courtney S.Pace June 15, 2013 at 11:22 am
Friday nights are a dooooozey! Or in this case a Boozey......
anthony June 15, 2013 at 02:23 pm
Something about a cultural preference ( more about genetic weakness based upon race, my opinion)
Phinnigin June 16, 2013 at 10:14 am
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Mother 24 June 16, 2013 at 10:21 am
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littleone June 16, 2013 at 09:01 pm
Two words.. Peanut allergies!!!!
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Kevin McLaughlin June 6, 2013 at 10:29 am
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I have posted a picture of all 4 head vases. Best offer.